Friday, May 6, 2016

Time to Set Intentions - jessicacrossasmr.com


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No matter what you think about astrology, the new moon is a great time to remind you each month to go inward and focus on your goals and intentions.  Today is a New Moon, and it is the time every month when I think about how I want to grow and change this month.  This can feel daunting, but going into meditation is a great way to ask for help.  Ask in meditation what you need to learn and how you need to grow this month.  

Read the following meditation and then close your eyes and remember what you can.  You don't need to memorize the meditation, because the path your meditation takes is exactly right for you!


Inner Temple



Take a deep breath in and relax.  Close your eyes and picture yourself walking down a path with me.  Notice what the path is made of.  The area around the path may still seem cloudy.  It is almost as if we are walking on a pathway surrounded by fog, but this will become clearer over time.  Up ahead you see a building the path leads too.  Just seeing this building makes your heart leap as you know you are home.  This is a place you have built to learn and grow.  Look closely at this building.  It may change over time but for right now you want a clear picture of how it currently looks.  How high is it?  How wide is it?  What is it made of?  As we walk you feel as if the building is pulling you towards it.  It has been waiting for you for a long time.


Soon we approach a door.  What does it look like?  What is its size, color, shape?  What is it made of?  Look closely at the doorknob and know you will pass through this door many times.  Knowing that your life will change by entering this building, I want you to take the doorknob and open the door.  Walk across the threshold with reverence, taking this step into a new life.


You walk into a large entryway or foyer.  There are many doors leading off of the foyer.  Some are shut, some are partially open and some are open archways.  Know that there is space for many rooms in this building.  There may also be a staircase up to another level.  What do the walls look like?  How do you feel in this space?  What is on the floor; stone, wood, tile, carpeting?  Is there any furniture in the room?   What are you drawn to in this room?  How does the room smell?  How does the space sound?  Is it cavernous or muted?  Take it in and know you will visit here many times.


I want you to walk towards an open archway.  You can hear some noise from this room.  This room is populated with all of your guides.  Your guides may be animals, people, angels, gods, ancestors or even other versions of yourself; not just older or younger versions of you but versions that made different decisions or have lived in different circumstances.  They are all there to grant you wisdom in the areas that you can’t see clearly.  


This room may be a dining room with a table where they all sit, a living room, or a library.  This is a place where you feel comfortable and a place with lots of seating to make your guides comfortable.  I want you to take a simple question.  I would start with “What do I need to know right now?”  This is a good question to ask you guides each day if you don’t have a specific concern.  

Approach one of your guides and ask this question.  They may answer in thoughts, feelings, pictures, words, or they may write something down.  See what they tell you and take it in any form given.   You may approach other guide and ask them as well.


When you only have a small amount of time you can ask just one guide.  It is helpful if you can carve out the time each day to ask all of your guides this question to help you navigate the day.  Different guides often influence different areas of your life, so their answers may relate to that area of your life and give you specific guidance.  Know your guides are always here for you though they may change.  Guides may leave as you have learned their lessons and new guides may join the group.  You may have some guides in the shadows that you have not met yet and may hesitate to approach.  


I want you to take another good look around this room.  How does this room make you feel?  Are you anxious around your guides?  If you are anxious around your guides a good question to ask is “Do you love me unconditionally?”  Your true guides all love you unconditionally.  Like any relationship, the more time you spend with your guides the more comfortable you will feel with them.    They are always there to help.


Know that this room may also alter over time and that is ok.  You will build your temple to give you just what you need when you need it.  Allow yourself to make these changes.  Thank your guides.  They love visiting with you and having a place where they can all be together.  


Leave this room taking one last look at the foyer and exit the front door of your temple.  Walk down the path again and turn around to look at your temple.  I want you to smile looking at this place you have created.  Continue to walk down the path with me away from your temple.  I want you to hear the sounds in the room where your physical body is.  Feel where you are sitting or lying down.  Wiggle your fingers and toes, and when you are ready open your eyes.


After this meditation find a way to ground yourself and return to your physical body.  You can eat or drink something.  Feel your extra energy sinking into the earth.  Go outside and touch the ground with your feet and give your energy to a tree or other plant.  Physical exercise can also help return you to your body.  Find something that makes you feel connected to your body and the earth so you can go on with your day.


Take care,

Jessica Cross

Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Gain a New Perspective - jessicacrossasmr.com


I had the chance to go on a women's retreat and unplug all weekend.  As someone who is working on growing an online business this was very difficult.  It was the best decision EVER!  

I needed to gain the perspective you get from walking away for a while.  Why do I always forget that!  I am one who will try to keep working at a project even though I'm not being efficient because I'm tired and burnt out.  I forget that this also happens on a larger scale.  It is hard to look at your life or business from inside of it.  Going on a retreat, and especially a meditation retreat allows you to look at your routine from the outside.  Try it!  

By the way, my retreat was less than an hour away and cost $25 to help cover food.  You do not need to spend a fortune, you may just need to look a bit harder to find something you can afford.  I was also able to bring my son and they had a kids program.  BEST RETREAT EVER!  They are out there.  I love you guys, but it was nice to be away.

Jessica Cross
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